How to Get Baby to Sleep Through the Night: Night Weaning & Tips

Published: 2025-11-28Last Reviewed: 2025-11-28BebeSnap Parenting Team5min read

"When will my baby sleep through the night?" Every parent has wondered this at some point. For exhausted parents dealing with night feedings and frequent wakings, this guide explains when babies start sleeping through the night and how to help them get there.

What Does "Sleeping Through the Night" Mean?

For babies, "sleeping through the night" doesn't mean 8-10 hours like adults. It means 6-8 hours of continuous sleep. Even this much can dramatically improve parents' quality of life!

💡 Baby's "sleeping through the night" = 6-8 hours of continuous sleep. Remember this is different from an adult's 8-10 hours!

When Do Babies Sleep Through the Night by Age

AgeContinuous SleepCharacteristics
0-2 months2-4 hoursSmall stomach, wakes often; no day/night distinction
3-4 months4-6 hoursLonger night sleep becomes possible
5-6 months6-8 hoursMany babies start sleeping through
7-9 months8-10 hoursMost can sleep through the night
10-12 months10-12 hoursStable nighttime sleep

Important: Every baby is different. Some sleep through at 3 months, others still wake at 12 months. Both are normal.

Why Newborns Wake Frequently

There are physiological reasons why newborns can't sleep through:

1. Small Stomach Capacity

  • Newborn stomach size: cherry to egg-sized
  • Can only hold small amounts, gets hungry often

2. Short Sleep Cycles

  • Newborn sleep cycle: ~50 minutes (adults: 90 minutes)
  • Easily wakes between cycles

3. Undeveloped Circadian Rhythm

  • Body clock develops around 3-4 months
  • Before that, they don't know night is for sleeping

Basic Principles for Sleeping Through

1. Put Down Drowsy But Awake

Key: Put baby down when drowsy, not fully asleep.

  • When eyes start closing
  • When movements slow down
  • When yawning

This teaches baby to "fall asleep in bed." They can then self-soothe when waking at night.

2. Consistent Bedtime Routine

A consistent routine signals to baby's brain that it's "time to sleep."

Recommended Bedtime Routine (20-30 minutes):

  • Bath (warm water for relaxation)
  • Lotion/massage
  • Change into pajamas
  • Feeding (outside the bed)
  • Reading/lullaby
  • Lay in bed

3. Appropriate Bedtime

Timing bedtime with baby's natural rhythm is crucial.

AgeRecommended Bedtime
3-6 months7:00-8:00 PM
6-12 months6:30-7:30 PM
12+ months7:00-8:00 PM

4. Differentiate Day and Night

During the day:

  • Bright lights, normal household noise
  • Active play and interaction
  • Naps in lit areas

At night:

  • Dim lights (even for feeding/diaper changes)
  • Quiet, calm interactions
  • Minimal stimulation

Age-Specific Strategies

0-3 Months: Building Foundation

Don't expect sleeping through at this stage. Focus on foundations:

  • Establish eat-play-sleep pattern
  • Start day/night differentiation
  • Use white noise
  • Create safe sleep environment

4-6 Months: Preparing for Sleeping Through

Many babies start sleeping through at this stage:

  • Gradually reduce night feeds (consult doctor)
  • Establish bedtime routine
  • Organize nap schedule
  • Consider sleep training if needed

7-12 Months: Stabilizing Sleep

Most babies can sleep through:

  • Wean night feeds completely (if needed)
  • Handle separation anxiety
  • Overcome sleep regressions
  • Consistency is key

How Long Should Night Feeding Continue?

AgeNight FeedsNotes
0-3 months2-3 timesEssential, feed on demand
4-6 months1-2 timesGradually reducing
6-9 months0-1 timeDecreases after starting solids
9+ months0 possibleNutritionally unnecessary

Note: This varies based on growth, weight, and health. Always consult your pediatrician.

What Prevents Sleeping Through

Sleep Associations

Things baby needs to fall asleep:

  • Feeding to sleep
  • Rocking to sleep
  • Falling asleep with pacifier

These habits mean baby needs parents to fall back asleep when waking at night.

Overtiredness

Paradoxically, overtired babies sleep worse:

  • Increased cortisol (stress hormone)
  • Difficulty falling asleep
  • Frequent waking

Solution: Adequate naps and early bedtime

Hunger or Discomfort

Check basic needs:

  • Was the last feeding enough?
  • Is the diaper dry?
  • Is temperature appropriate? (68-72°F / 20-22°C)
  • Any signs of illness?

When Baby Wakes at Night

Wait and see (1-2 minutes)

  • Check if baby can self-soothe
  • Not every movement means "awake"

Minimal intervention

  • Don't turn on lights
  • Don't talk
  • Only address needs (feeding, diaper)

Stay consistent

  • Respond the same way each time
  • Make it predictable for baby

When to Seek Professional Help

Consult your pediatrician if:

  • Waking 3+ times every night after 6 months
  • Snoring or sleep apnea symptoms
  • Excessive daytime lethargy
  • Slow weight gain
  • Serious impact on parents' health

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  • Sleep logging: Track sleep time, wake time, night wakings
  • Pattern analysis: See if you're getting closer to sleeping through
  • Night feed tracking: Record frequency and timing
  • AI consultation: 24/7 sleep support

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References:

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Medical Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not replace professional medical advice. If you have concerns about your baby's health, please consult a pediatrician.